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Friday, September 28, 2012

A Different Point of View

I have observed people around me... the environment that I'm living in.
We are all different. Different in a sense wherein family is portrayed, relationships that each has, academics/ education, etc... mostly the experiences. Our experiences made us all differ from one another. In this case, we must not judge the people we see that would lead to misunderstandings- which leads to hatred. 
Be Unique 
I have realized that it is not good to judge others which did wrong to us. We must not focus on one person only because we think that he/she thinks bad about us. 
The main solution: We must focus on how to achieve our own goals (focus on our lives), and not what the people around us think about us. 
Get it? 
I know we are social beings, but not necessarily we have to be like them. Socializing is very different from being a conformist. It is better to be a non-conformist than to be an anti-social being (it's a psychopathic disorder- i think) (i know it's really not logical to compare that but I'm just giving emphasis that they are different from one another)

Sunday, September 9, 2012

Problems.



Once you are in a relationship, problems will arise.. mostly if it's a 
LOOONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.
It just bleeds 'cause it hurts >.<
What kind of problems? Whatever these problems are, we have to learn how to face these by not thinking:


  •  He/She does not love you any more (which I always think)
  •  He/She likes another person better than you (which I always think.. AGAIN)
  •  He/She lost his/her patience and does things you don't like so you will be forced to break your promise (you'll be together till the end of times) and not to blame him for the loss. (that's just bad)



Thanks. 

Monday, August 20, 2012

The Queerest Sort of Feeling...

Just a heart..
John is a name of many men... a very common name... but the John I know is a complete opposite of the characteristic of his name. He is completely a unique young man whom I fell in love with. He, who made me feel loved and special in any way.. He gave me that feeling.. as defined by Ms. Alexandra Lawrence from the book Something Wonderful of Judtih McNaught when she was asked by her friend, Mary Ellen "what does it feel like to you—loving a man, I mean?" she answered " it's the queerest sort of feeling, but exciting too... you know, happy, but worried that I look a fright, and sad too, because I'm afraid he'll leave if I'm not amusing and just right, and then I'll lose him". Exactly.. 
John is the first man I fell in love with.. a love I know deeper than any other infatuation.. And I felt exactly what Alexandra felt.. it's a very queer feeling...
To cut the story short... I love John with my whole heart.. and the feeling that I have for him is very queer. I see something in him that I love very much.. and this "something" must be "something wonderful".

What A Wonderful World

How do you feel about our dwelling?

People... They are human beings.. living in this beautifully created world... Together with the other living creatures... Inevitably disappointing... They are blinded with greediness that destroys this world. Stupid people. Yes, they are. I may be one of them/ us... but we have to try helping ourselves lessen the Earth's problem. (I feel like a jobbernowl!)